In modern life, what is the difference between a princess and a queen? Is there a difference? Does it matter? It does! Find out why.
This is an excerpt from “Make Women Feminine Again,” Jennifer Moleski’s 22 Convention Speech. You can watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gl1HMFPcc74. The Tree of Liberty Society is not associated with Jennifer Moleski, or anyone else involved with the 22 Convention. We just believe in spreading truth, wherever it is found.
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TRANSCRIPT
So I had this, I’m telling you, I’m covering everything that everyone else was, but originally I had this as a lowercase B and an uppercase B.
Beauty, beauty, lowercase beauty, uppercase beauty, there’s a difference.
But then I have a video on YouTube, princesses versus queens, so I changed that.
But it’s beauty.
I mean there’s grand beauty and there’s simple beauty.
I’ll explain it.
So I think of this.
Princess, I tell my stepdaughter, you are a princess now.
We are teaching you how to be a queen.
When you go out into the world, I expect you to be a queen.
But right now, a princess.
And this is all normal.
They think about their face and fitness, and that’s great.
Everyone should go on a hike and be mindful about their health.
The food they take in, their body.
Their body is getting pretty awesome.
It feels good.
Finesse, flirting, being charming.
But they’re also demanding.
And they’re out to get, and compete with other women.
I actually have no problem with that.
That’s how life is.
But they forget that there should be an end to this.
Like, you have this power as a little princess to get the best king you can and then grow up.
So I think that princesses learn and gain from Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, public education, TVs and movies.
That’s how we learn how to be a princess.
But what about a queen?
I mean, I just named some things.
Frugality and finances.
I wasn’t raised to understand money at all.
I was raised poor.
So I am afraid to spend money.
And sometimes not.
I don’t have a great relationship with money.
And I’m working on it because I’m a grown-up, self-responsibility.
But I wish someone had done that.
We do this thing with our daughter.
We give tickets to try to teach about finances.
So everything she does that’s good, she gets a ticket for a currency, and then she gets to spend it.
So five tickets is 20 minutes on her tablet.
Twenty-five tickets is meal of her choice prepared by her.
She likes to cook.
But I mean, we cook with her.
And one of the things, and I actually think that there’s a lot of adults who could use this.
We give her a ticket for saying excuse me out in public.
So one day at the grocery store, she just got in everyone’s way just to say excuse me.
And she gained a lot of tickets.
I don’t care.
I want her happy to say excuse me.
If she says thank you to someone holding the door, she gets a ticket.
Because she’s oblivious.
She’s fine.
She’s seven.
She’s oblivious.
But I want her to start to think about the currency.
And you have to be a good person to get something.
And then you can spend it.
But you have to be right.
If she gives a compliment, she gets two tickets.
No, three tickets.
So it’s really cute to watch her because she used to be really shy about it.
But she went up to a woman, she’s like, I really like your shoes.
And the woman’s like, oh, thank you.
But she has no social skills, so she just stood there staring at her.
Like, I’m just going to let this plan out.
Because they’re really red and they’re really shiny.
Okay, great.
Well, that’s why I bought them.
And then she comes up to me, she’s like, I get my tickets.
And I don’t care.
I want her.
I want her civil.
And I want her to be of service because that feels good.
Fidelity, we don’t talk about that a lot.
Family, cooking.
I can’t believe how many women don’t want to cook.
But you know what?
If men said that it was like a man’s thing, women would be rioting in the streets.
Because they can cook too, you know?
To think about the future.
Have fortitude.
To respect the man of the house and the father.
To maintain the house if it’s good.
If it’s not, make it better.
Honor the masculine.
Give homage to the feminine.
Be a mother to your children.
Be a mentor to young women.
So it has struck in me lately that whatever you want to be when you grow up, you want to be an engineer, you want to be an orthodontist, you want to be a dog groomer, a teacher, you can go and give a lot of money to someone to teach you to do that.
But the one thing that most women will be in service of is a household, a husband, and a family.
Who’s teaching that?
Only you.
Only you can teach that.
Princess versus queen.
Princess, they can get that anywhere.
Queen, from a mother, from a mentor.
In my estimation, this is an opinion piece.
Oh yeah, I like this.
Okay, so as I said to you, it would be really great, I think, if you went out into the world, did whatever you wanted to do, be your unique self.
But this little fence post, when you are strong with conviction, you just stand firm.
Have any of you ever seen the video about the first follower?
So, yeah, it’s good, right?
Okay, so every revolution, every party, everything needs a leader, but the other person that’s so courageous is the first follower.
So there’s this video, I should have put it up, of this guy.
And he’s at this, it looks like a Woodstock.
And it’s a big grass…
And he is just rocking like the hardest dancing you’ve ever seen ever.
And then another person finally, after like five minutes of this dude dancing alone, he starts rocking with him.
And then it’s hundreds of people.
Because you need that.
I mean, no one wants to be by that crazy dude unless there’s two crazy dudes, you know?
And then it’s not such a stupid thing after all.
So when I think of offense.
Okay, so you have the leader and then the first follower.
And what is important from then on, and especially the third person, is now we’re going to decide where our organization is going to be.
So we have one person, two person.
Are we going to create a force field of protection for this?
I like this.
We’re going to have a first person, and a second, and a third, and we’re all strong, and now we have a community.
And now we’re really, really strong.
And we have the wherewithal and the intensity to keep the bad out, the evil.
And the knowledge and strength from each other to know who is going to be the person that’s going to join with us in unity.
And I’ve been thinking about mentorship because I want all of you and me to be a mentor.
But honestly, sometimes we’re not ready to be a mentor.
So I think another thing that could be helpful is if you—
I want to say demand, but—
If you would awaken the possibility of mentorship within another.
Like I want to be a good wife.
So if I can find a woman who’s been married for a long time and say, would you be…
They do that in everything.
You know, you have a mentorship in business and you want to stay sober and you want to be right and you want to do this.
And I just got involved in the church.
But they don’t really do that with relationships.
So what if we could say, Sally, you’ve been married for 10 years, 20 years, 50, I don’t care.
And your husband is really happy, you seem really happy.
Can I, can you, will you teach me?
Can I call you when I want to yell at my husband?
Yes, yes, call me, woman, don’t yell at your husband.
I bet they would do that.
I… I… oh no, I thought that I forgot to say something.
I did.
That’s okay, I’m going to say it right now.
I was itching to talk about fashion when—
When the guh… guh…
What were they?
Guzzies.
When the Guzzies were up.
Because my husband and I recently did this.
We made a pact.
Where if we leave the house for longer than 30 minutes, we have to dress up.
Or leave the hotel room for longer than 30 minutes, we have to dress up.
So we have been doing that.
And I just want to tell you about that experience.
Because I would just wear whatever.
Whatever’s comfortable.
And so would he.
But when we decided to do this—
Well, first of all, I believe in civility.
Oh, dear.
I believe in civility.
But when I put nice clothing on, I feel far more civil.
I’m thinking about how I’m flowing and moving.
And so is he.
And he feels more dignified, so he acts more dignified.
Now, here’s what’s cool about, from my experience—
You do whatever you want, but I’m just telling you about my experience.
When we go out, we are—
I can see everyone like this.
It’s a bit like when we’re in the produce section.
And I’m feeling avocados.
There’s people.
And many people will stop and say, did someone get married?
What do you do for a living?
Are you famous?
We’ve gotten that?
It’s crazy.
I mean, in a sane and beautiful lowercase b, uppercase B, princess queen, we wouldn’t be stopped because it’d be the norm.
But have you ever seen those benches?
They’re like, if you’re looking at this, your advertising dollar could go a long way if you advertise at this bench.
So I feel like we’re an advertisement.
Okay, here’s my cool story.
We were out to brunch.
And I was facing this way.
And right here is an eight-top of women.
And my husband is right across from me.
And I’m cold like I always am.
And he got up to use the restroom.
And he put his coat on me.
I didn’t ask.
He put his coat on me.
He was in the restroom.
When he came back, we decided that we were ready to go.
So I got up.
And I was done with the coat because I wasn’t cold anymore.
And I put it on him like I always do.
I always put his coat on him.
He puts his arm out.
We walk out.
And it’s a big, you know, the garage doors at the hip, little restaurants now.
And you can see out into the sidewalk.
He always has me walk on the inside.
So he like moves me to the inside and we walk off.
And he said, did you see the women at that eight-top?
I said, no.
He said that every single one of them stopped what they were doing to watch our interaction.
So even the women who are facing away, you know, are like watching what we’re doing.
And I said, I hope and I think that that will change one of them.
To awaken them to the possibility that, oh, that looked kind of nice.
You see, he put his coat on her because she was cold.
Well, maybe I want that.
Okay, well, you know what?
I want that.
That looks pretty good.
But I’ve never put a jacket on a man.
Well, maybe I need to do some things.
Maybe I need to act a little bit more civil to get civil.
There’s a woman, and it’s funny because when I say self-responsibility, sometimes all it takes is imagination.
I always say that Little House on the Prairie could never—
Google would never be invented by anyone in the Little House on the Prairie time.
Because they didn’t have the imagination for it.
In order to get to there, you have to have sneaky paths where you can look back and be like, oh, that was cool, that was cool, that was cool, and now here I am.
So sometimes you have to have the imagination.
This is how ding-dongy I was years ago.
There was a woman that I worked with at a restaurant.
And we had a work meeting.
And it was her day off.
So she comes in, and she is like to the nines.
She looks so good.
And I said, Bree, do you have another job?
She’s like, no.
I said, oh, did you, like, were you as a doctor?
You look really good.
She’s like, no, I just like to dress like this.
And I couldn’t believe it.
That I had the right, like, she could—
Wait a minute, she just leaves the house for no reason looking like that?
Well, maybe I can do that.
And then I did, you know?
Like, and I can’t believe it took courage for me to leave my house looking well.
I mean, just saying it right now, I can’t believe it.
But I had to give myself permission.
I’m like, well, Bree can do it.
If Bree can do it, I can do it.
And then I did do it.
And maybe I’ve—
Maybe I’ve stimulated the mind of another woman to do that.
